"Being Twenty-Something"

They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.

You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognize is that they are realizing that too, and that they aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job... and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't.

One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lie in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person.

One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself... and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!

What you may not realize is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out.

gotta love these girls...

while watching 'must love dogs'.  girl in movie says SWF
lubna: single with family?
nusra: () um...single WHITE FEMALE?!!!
lubna: ohh hahahaha. wat are u?
nusra: single asian, no pakistani female.  SPF!!....20!

oh i crack myself up. 
.....

LiLmaviZ86: hey u know i didnt know wat SWF was either
LiLmaviZ86: i would have thought single while flirting
cookiemnstrr: lollllllllllllllllllllll
LiLmaviZ86: thats wat i thought when i first read it

cookiemnstrr: stop saying funny things i dont have room in my profile
SuPaSuBby01: I'M NOT IN IT TO BEGIN WITH
cooki: cuz i dont have roooooooom!!!!!!
co: mavi and lubna are so dumb that tehy have to be in there
SuP: lolll
SuPa: nice to kno u love ur friends

.....
Sabrrriya: and i think i was the worst
Sabrrriya: i was like isn't that the wrestling thing
Sabrrriya: and then i remembered it was wwf.

ok so its 2 in the morning....

cookiemnstrr: who sings the ironic song
SuPaSuBby01: alanis morsette
cookiemnstrr: lol
cookiemnstrr: i was hoping ud spell her name it
cookiemnstrr: so i could copy an dpaste it
cookiemnstrr: lollllll
SuPaSuBby01: ....
cookiemnstrr: ok shutup
SuPaSuBby01: I DID SPELL IT RIGHT
cookiemnstrr: no u didnt
SuPaSuBby01: yes i did
cookiemnstrr: its morrisette
SuPaSuBby01: God
SuPaSuBby01: ok
SuPaSuBby01: if u kno EVERYTHING WHY ASK
SuPaSuBby01: SERIOUSLY

cookiemnstrr: wat was the name of the snoop and dre song?
SuPaSuBby01: yeaahhh
SuPaSuBby01: i kno

30 seconds....
cookiemnstrr: ...........

60 seconds......

SuPaSuBby01: dl aryan-jaaneman
cookiemnstrr: dl?
cookiemnstrr: dj
SuPaSuBby01: DOWNLOAD
cookiemnstrr: is it DL?
cookiemnstrr: oh
SuPaSuBby01: DownLoad
cookiemnstrr: hahahahaha
cookiemnstrr: omggggg
SuPaSuBby01: ........
SuPaSuBby01: if u were my wife id backhand you
SuPaSuBby01: lollll
cookiemnstrr: ill give u taht one lol
SuPaSuBby01: lollll

Nusra, if you were a movie, you'd be a Romantic Comedy

Awwww. With your sense of humor and spunk, you're a match made in heaven with a feel-good romantic comedy. From stories of serendipity to love at first sight to love lost and found again, these are the kinds of movies that melt your heart and make you love that loving feeling.

Whether you're lucky in love or could use Cupid's help, you've got that same lighthearted attitude and irresistibly sweet quality as your movie match. When life throws you a curve, you take it in stride and throw in a little laughter to make the day a bit brighter. So keep warming people's hearts with your sweet smile and adorable approach to life. All you need is love — and laughs!